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An intelligent professor ask his students this question:
"Why do people shout when they are angry?"

All students thought for quite some time. One of them said, "because we lost our cool, so we shouted."

The professor asked again, "All other people are just beside you. You still shout. Why can't you talk softly? Why must you shout?"

The students gave various opinions but none to the satisfaction of the professor.

Finally, the professor said, "When 2 people get angry, their hearts are far apart. In order to cover this distance so that the other party can hear you, you will have to shout."

When one shouts, he/she gets angrier. The said distance becomes farther and one have to shout louder.

The professor continued, "When two persons are in love, what will be the situation? It's the reverse. They do not have to shout but they talk softly. Why?"

This is because their hearts are very close to one another. Thus, people in love always talk softly and because of this their love becomes deeper. Eventually, they do not need to talk to understand each other.

They are able to convey message by the use of their eyes only. There is now zero distance between their hearts. The professor finally makes a conclusion.

When 2 persons argue, do not let the distance between the hearts become farther apart. Do not say things that will make the hearts become further apart. Let few days pass naturally and when the distance between the hearts become closer then only talk nicely!!